Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Forever






My Heart calls to you as you are far away from me
there is nothing i won't do just to hold you
I could wrap my arms around you and drift off into forever
feeling your warmth,
your electric touch,
and seeing your wonderful smile,
for my heart skips a beat whenever you speak
and my head soars into the clouds,
and i am ren
dered speechless by you
as i think about it,
I could spend eternity like this
Light headed,
Speechless,
Lost in your eyes...

Forever



Monday, December 28, 2009

Sanely Insane


We all like to think that we are rational being; humane, civilized, thoughtful, responsible. But, when things fall apart, even just a little, it becomes clear we are not better than animals. In fact at times, we become worst. We hurt people and commit sins, despite of knowing the difference between the good and the bad. We commit the deadly sins we are never supposed to.
What are these sins? Greed, Sloth (carelessness), Pride, Lust, Envy, Gluttony and Anger. What in your opinion is the most dangerous sin? From what I've seen, Its Anger. Why? What makes anger different from the six other deadly sins? It's pretty simple really. You give in to a sin like envy or pride, and you only hurt yourself. Try lust or coveting and you'll only hurt yourself and one or two others. But anger is the worst.. the mother of all sins... Not only can anger drive you over the edge, when it does, you can take an awful lot of people with you.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Don't plan it, just do it !


I miss my school; I miss my Teachers and most of all, my Friends. I always thought we'll always stick together; we'll always be each other's best friend. We made plans of how we'll meet and have fun and will always be there for each other. But future is uncertain.
We spend our whole lives worrying about the future, planning for the future, trying to predict the future, as if figuring it out will cushion the blow. But the future is always changing. The future is the home of our deepest fears and wildest hopes. But one thing is certain when it finally reveals itself. The future is never the way we imagined it.
There's a lot I wanted to tell them, that how much I love them, how they all have changed my life in some way or the other. But I never did. I never told them how important they are, I was busy 'planning' to do it and now it's too late.
But, did you say it? 'I love you. I don't ever want to live without you. You changed my life.' Did you say it? Don't waste time making plans. Work toward it, and every now and then, look around; Drink it in 'cause this is it. It might all be gone tomorrow'.



Saturday, December 26, 2009

What is love?


A few days ago, my cousin received a text message that says, "What is love?" She replied, "Love is blind". Something we all have heard all our lives. Then she asked me, that what I think love is. I kept thinking but couldn't come up with something that could truly describe love. I've been in love all my life; have experienced all kind of love for everything. Love for food, love for shopping, love for writing, love for reading, photography, love for my parents, friend and for that someone special. Yet, I failed at describing what love actually is.
A friend once said, "Love is an addiction", I don't think so, Addiction, In any form is a negative action. Whereas, Love is all about being pure and positive. So, what can possibly describe love?
Love is listening even when you have thousand words to say, Love is when you let people act themselves. Love is acceptance, Love is forgiveness, Love is, wanting someone to be happy even if you have to let them go, love is letting someone go when you know they can't be happy with you, It is knowing, not thinking, that you would do anything for them, including give your own life if necessary. Its being there for someone no matter what, and doing the best you can to take care of them regardless of how difficult it may be. It's willing to compromise, sacrifice, and break your habits for the good of the relationship.
Love is accepting someone for who they are, regardless of their past, their flaws, or their mistakes. Seeing someone as beautiful all the time, no matter what they physically look like, or whether they're tired, sick, dirty, and grumpy. Love is when something or someone touches your heart to the core.

Love is learning about a whole person and being able to love their flaws and shortcomings along with all the good stuff. Love is not a word or a feeling, it’s a life style.


Loving someone truly, Takes it all






There comes a time in everyone's life when we lost our ability to act sanely, reason could be anything or anyone or maybe just nothing at all. It's okay to be ourselves as long as we are on our own, but when we have someone in our life, that someone special we love, it could really make a difference to him. We can say bad things at bad timings, we can act like a total stranger, the person he has never known or met or even want to know. But that’s us, that’s a part of our being. A real bad part. And at times, people just can't handle you at your worst and leave.. Just because somebody doesn't perform the way that you want them to doesn't mean that you should just give up on them.
Why can't we be the one to just hold them and let them know that its okay to be bad at times, that its completely normal to act abnormal at times. We are humans we all make mistakes, some of us makes a lot of them but that doesn’t mean we don’t value the one who loves us. We just know they have it all, what it takes to handle us. Exactly what we need, Just a word or a hug.
It is wrong to just give up on someone because the two of you are too different, because the two of you don't get along, because the two of you always fight, because the two of you can't think when you're together that you don't think you are good for each other when one of you could actually be the voice of reason to make things work. Just because it's not working out now doesn't mean it's never going to work out.
People shouldn't give up on someone they truly love or shouldn't just give up a chance on something because they think it will never work out. It's not easy but that's exactly the point nothing is ever easy. If the person you're with is wrong, you be the right, If he's the sad face you be the smile. But of course, Only If you truly love the person.
It takes a good to bring good out of bad :)

Friday, December 25, 2009

Change




Life.. A journey, that is full of uncertain things. The only certain and constant thing in life is "Change". The only thing that'll stay with you, no matter what. It stays with you in your bad and in your good. When your life is full of joys and all the happiness of the world.. It changes. When you're going through the worst time of your being, it takes time.. but it changes, eventually.

Change; we don’t like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. At times it’s a hard thing to change, for anything or anyone. Unless you realize, that its you who need a change, who need to improve, For no one but yourself. But most of the times it’s the hardest thing to accept it. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying.

Change is what we all look forward to. If its bad, we want to change it for the good, if its already good, we want to change it for the best. The more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, change is good, sometimes, change is.. Everything. All in all, we all want change; we all 'need' change.