Saturday, December 26, 2009

Loving someone truly, Takes it all

There comes a time in everyone's life when we lost our ability to act sanely, reason could be anything or anyone or maybe just nothing at all. It's okay to be ourselves as long as we are on our own, but when we have someone in our life, that someone special we love, it could really make a difference to him. We can say bad things at bad timings, we can act like a total stranger, the person he has never known or met or even want to know. But that’s us, that’s a part of our being. A real bad part. And at times, people just can't handle you at your worst and leave.. Just because somebody doesn't perform the way that you want them to doesn't mean that you should just give up on them.
Why can't we be the one to just hold them and let them know that its okay to be bad at times, that its completely normal to act abnormal at times. We are humans we all make mistakes, some of us makes a lot of them but that doesn’t mean we don’t value the one who loves us. We just know they have it all, what it takes to handle us. Exactly what we need, Just a word or a hug.
It is wrong to just give up on someone because the two of you are too different, because the two of you don't get along, because the two of you always fight, because the two of you can't think when you're together that you don't think you are good for each other when one of you could actually be the voice of reason to make things work. Just because it's not working out now doesn't mean it's never going to work out.
People shouldn't give up on someone they truly love or shouldn't just give up a chance on something because they think it will never work out. It's not easy but that's exactly the point nothing is ever easy. If the person you're with is wrong, you be the right, If he's the sad face you be the smile. But of course, Only If you truly love the person.
It takes a good to bring good out of bad :)